Essential Life Skills They Don’t Teach in School 

Survival Skills School Forgot to Teach 

School has taught us how to solve x, memorize the periodic table, and write essays, but when it comes to real-life skills like managing money, dealing with stress, or even cooking a decent meal, most of us are left searching the internet for answers. As GenZ, we’re living in a world that’s changing faster than ever, and there are some essential life skills that no one’s teaching us in class.

1. Financial Literacy: How to Handle Your Money  

Let’s start with the big one “money”. Schools rarely teach us how to budget, save, or invest, but managing your finances is super important. Here’s the cheat sheet:

• Budgeting: Track what you earn and spend. Apps like Mint or YNAB can help.
• Saving: Try to save at least 20% of what you earn. Start an emergency fund. It will be a lifesaver whenever any unexpected expenses happen.
• Investing: Learn the basics of stocks, crypto, or ETFs. Even small investments can grow over time.
• Credit: Understand how credit scores work and why they matter. Pro tip: Always pay your bills on time and try to pay in full. Be careful not to overburden yourself with credit card debt, as it can lead to financial stress and lower your credit score.

2. Emotional Intelligence: How to Handle Your Feelings (and Others’)  

Life isn’t just about filling papers in exams. it’s also about managing relationships and emotions; to understand and control your emotions while having empathy for others feelings. Here’s how to get better at it:

• Self-awareness: Notice your emotions and what causes them.
• Communication: Learn to express yourself clearly and listen to others.
• Conflict resolution: Stay calm, focus on the problem, and find solutions instead of blaming.
• Empathy: Try to see things from others’ perspectives. It’s a game-changer for friendships and relationships.

3. Time Management: How to Stop Procrastinating (For Real)  

Between school, work, social life, and binge-watching Netflix, time can feel like it’s slipping away. Learning to manage your time is key to staying productive without burning out. Try these tips:

• Prioritize: Focus on what’s urgent and important first.
• Plan: Use a planner or app like Notion to organize your week.
• Set boundaries: Learn to say no when you’re overwhelmed.
• Break it down: Tackle big tasks in smaller steps to avoid procrastination.

4. Cooking Basics: How to Not Live on Instant Noodles  

Sure, delivery apps are convenient, but knowing how to cook saves money and keeps you healthy. Start with these basics:

• Learn 5 go-to recipes: Pasta, stir-fry, salads, soups, and one dessert.
• Meal prep: Cook in batches to save time during the week.
• Knife skills: Learn how to chop veggies safely and quickly.
• Boiling: By learning this you can easily cook pasta, rice, and vegetables.
• Frying: Perfect for creating crispy and quick dishes.
• Baking: Great for preparing bread and desserts.
• Roasting: Adds rich flavors to vegetables and meats
• Read labels: Understand nutrition labels to make healthier choices while shopping for groceries.

5. Networking: How to Build Real Connections  

It’s not just about who you know, it’s about how you connect with them. Networking can open doors to opportunities, whether it’s a job, mentorship, or collaboration. Here’s how to do it right:

• Be genuine: People can tell when you’re being fake. Show real interest in others.
• Use social media: Use LinkedIn to connect with professionals in your field.
• Follow up: Send a thank-you message after meeting someone new.
• Give before you ask: Offer help or share resources before asking for favors.

6. Basic Home Maintenance: How to Adult Like a Pro  

No one’s coming to fix your broken tap or clear your blocked drain (unless you want to pay money for it). Learn these basic home skills to save money and stress:

• Plumbing: Learn how to unclog a sink or toilet.
• Electrical basics: Know how to reset a circuit breaker or change a light-bulb.
• DIY repairs: Fix a loose screw, patch a hole in the wall, or assemble furniture.
• Cleaning hacks: Keep your space tidy with simple routines.

7. Critical Thinking: How to Spot Fake News Online  

In the age of misinformation, critical thinking is more important than ever. Try to think on your own to segregate what are the correct and fake ones

• Fact-check: Verify information from multiple reliable sources.
• Question everything: Don’t believe everything you see on social media.
• Think before you share: Don’t spread fake news.

8. Self-Care: How to Take Care of Your Mental Health  

Life can be overwhelming, and self-care isn’t just a trend, it’s a necessity to lead a stress free life. Here’s how to prioritize your mental health:

• Set boundaries: Learn to say no and protect your energy.
• Practice mindfulness: Try meditation, journaling, or deep breathing exercises.
• Seek help: There’s no shame in talking to a therapist or counselor.

Final Thoughts  

School didn’t teach us everything, but we can still succeed! Learn these essential life skills to tackle whatever comes your way. Remember, it’s okay to learn as you go-on one take it step by step and ask for help when you need it.